Irish Dancer Gifts
Irish Dancer Gifts
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Self-help in a New Way
My wife and I are sitting at the white patio table under the green umbrella at the Riverside Restaurant in Grants Pass, Oregon. We are at the bottom of a three level veranda facing the Rogue River.
The Rogue is one of our few nationally protected wild rivers. I can hear the gurgling flow of the current rapidly moving down stream. The warm sun today hits the rippling water with thousands of light refractions that gleam like tiny, twinkling stars.
Needless to say, we are relaxed; and enjoying our peaceful surroundings accompanied by bird songs and pine tree fragrances. I look across the eighty feet span of this amazing water wonder. There are bluish-green mountain tops looming down stream, and a huge, graceful Osprey circling above us.
All of a sudden, the raptor folds in its wings, dive-bombs into the river in front of us, like a gifted dancer nailing a contorted pose. Then the Osprey victoriously explodes out of the water, flying into the blue sky with a silver fish in its beak. Oh my, I have never witnessed such a raw, glorious, inspiring sight.
My mind flashes back to a similar, awesome and equally inspiring human experience that occurred several nights ago at our local Unity Church. I facilitate a support group there on Thursday evenings that we call Positive Life Changes.
We are sitting on the wood and aluminum church chairs arranged in a circle. I am in the middle of the group with Kathy, Fred, Tom, and Shawn on the left half of the circle; and Doris, Anne, and Fred on my right.
Fred begins the meeting by reading from our Mission Statement: "We are meeting here today to discover positive ways of having a healthier, happier, more balanced life."
Fred, (who is 85-years-old, bent over from back problems, with a bald head, white moustache, and a pervasive twinkle in his eye) hands off the Mission Statement sheet to Shawn, our newest member.
She reads the three pathways to emotional recovery, beginning with, "#1. We will practice ways to limit and control negative thoughts, feelings, and behaviors."
Shawn, (in her early 40's, a single mom, with page-boy styled brunette hair) passes the sheet back to me.
I further explain, "There are eight actual steps to positive change, but first we will begin our discussion with the word of the day entitled 'A New Way'."
Each member eagerly took turns explaining how to embrace a new way of living despite the inevitable setbacks, challenges, and life stressors that appear to block our progress at times.
Fred delighted in describing his "kick-the-bucket" list: "I made a commitment to take note of all the things that have displeased my wife, and I will try to do better." In the last year he has many physical challenges that have included one heart attack, crippling back pain, and two strokes.
Kathy, (37, very slender, wearing her brown hair in a pony tail) proudly explained that she is in recovery from her alcoholism after getting out of prison recently for multiple DUI convictions. She went on to attest, "My new way is moving into a women's half-way house in town, which will support by recovery, and help me get a fresh start on life again."
Doris, (short, with thinning reddish-brown hair, in her late 40's) has been married and divorced three times. She is living with her elderly mother and her alcoholic brother. She shyly shared, "My new goal is to change my life by going back to college and majoring in career development."
Tom, (47, brain-injured, with Schizophrenia, wearing a light pencil thin beard on his jaw line) is applying of Social Security Disability. He softly described his new interest in writing poetry, and he wisely pointed out to the group, "A new way suggests a willingness to be more open to positive thoughts, feelings, and actions."
Anne, (53, short blond hair, speaks with an Irish accent) came as a guest of Kathy's. She related to Tom her ambivalence about being on Social Security Disability. With passion in her eyes she stated, "My new way is to look for part-time work because I am not crippled enough to stay at home all day."
Pete, (62, fully bearded, grey haired, and a combat Vietnam veteran) is going through a terrible divorce. He painfully described his grief over his separation from his wife of fourteen years due to her unmanageable Bipolar Disorder and alcoholism.
Tearfully he stated, "How do you move forward to embrace a new life when negative thoughts and feelings keep taking you back to the old pain and suffering?"
I took this opportunity to recommend my stop and think process to positive change.
When we are faced with hardships, adversity, or triggers to engage in self-defeating behavior (I call our dark secrets), I suggest we try the following emotional recovery system:
#1. Take a deep breath by inhaling for three seconds, and slowly exhale for six or more. This will slow down the temptation to stress-out or impulsively dance with negativity.
#2. Practice the skill of positive self-talk. For example, repeat affirmations like, "I refuse to beat myself up with things I can't change." Or, "I deserve to have a better life today."
#3. Most importantly, when stuck and unable to see a new way, pause, and reach out for help to a positive person.
Pete graciously thanked me, smiled, and exclaimed, "Sounds good Gary, but where do I find positive people to talk with?"
I hesitated, and said, "Look around Pete, all the positive people you need are in this group today."
We then laughed, smiled, and mysteriously connected in a special way; as majestic and uplifting as the Osprey who in full view dove into the water, and flew back into the blue sky victorious.
Startled from my muse by the waitress, we ordered from the menu. I look again at the mighty Rogue, and recount my experiences about the support group to my wife Susan.
About the Author
Mr. Eby is a Master Social Worker with more than 30 years of professional experience. He is an author published by SterlingHouse. He currently works as a therapist and counselor at Options for Southern Oregon, the local mental health agency. He has also provided online life coaching services on eBay for many years. For more information visit his site at http://www.squidoo.com/ebyway
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Irish Dancer Bead $53 Irish Dancer Bead |
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Musical Irish Dancer $29.99 This Irish lass will dance her way into your heart! Dressed in traditional Irish costume the 7? figurine is adorned with shamrocks and plays ?Irish Lullaby?. Please state name up to 24 characters. Poly Resin. Dancer must be screwed in counter clockwise to top of base. |
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Creative Irish Gifts Gift Certificate $5 Creative Irish Gifts gift certificates are the perfect gift for that hard-to-buy-for Irish person! They come in several denominations and are redeemable on phone, mail-in or web orders. |
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Irish Dancer Tea Towel $19.99 Adorable tea towels, decorated with ?happy shamrocks?, will brighten any home and warm your Irish heart. Cotton and linen. 14?W x 22?H. |
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Irish Forest Air Freshener - Dancer $5.99 Take home the fresh, clean scent of Ireland. These fresheners are ideal for home and car. From Ireland. Poly resin. 3 3/4 Dancer |
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Irish Dancer in Training Irish Infant Bodysuit by CafePress $18.5 The cutest bodysuit for the future Irish dancer Irish Infant Bodysuit Babies love creepin', crawlin' and sleepin' in our super comfy, 100% cotton jersey knit Infant Creeper. Infant clothes shouldn't be hard to change, so our three-snap bottom helps ease those nasty diaper changes. Great baby stuff for your special little o |
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Enya The Irish Dancer Porcelain Doll $199 This genuine Crolly Doll was lovingly hand finished by the award-winning team in beautiful North West Donegal, Ireland, using only the finest of Irish Linens and velvet, in the best traditions of design and manufacture, which have been synonymous with Crolly Dolls since 1939. Enya is Ireland with her flawless porcelain face, deep green eyes, and soft auburn hair. Embroidered velvet and satin dress edged in ivory eyelet. 18 tall. Stand and sturdy collectors' box included, along with signed Certificate of Authenticity. From Ireland. Web Exclusive! |
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Adult Irish Dancer Dancer Large Mug by CafePress $18 Great for an early morning or post dance liquid fix Dancer Large Mug Super-size your favorite beverage or just size-up to avoid spills with our hefty, 15 oz. ceramic Large Mug. Large easy-grip handle. When you need more, mug it up. Measures 4.5 tall, 3.25 diameter. Dishwasher and microwave safe. |
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Adult Irish Dancer Dancer Ringer T by CafePress $22.25 The Ringer T has made a fashion comeback, and ours is a popular favorite. This classic style is sure to impress even the most discerning t-shirt connoisseur with an eye for retro-coolness. Great for relaxing in comfort year-round.5.5 oz. 100% pres Dancer Ringer T The Ringer T has made a fashion comeback, and ours is a popular favorite. This classic style is sure to impress even the most discerning t-shirt connoisseur with an eye for retro-coolness. Great for relaxing in comfort year-round.5.5 oz. 100% pres |
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Personalized Step Dancer Ornament $11.99 Our enchanting dancer holds a personalized shamrock. Imported. Resin. Please state name. 5. |
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Irish Dancer Euro Hobbies Oval Sticker by CafePress $5 Irish Dancer Euro Oval Sticker Hobbies Oval Sticker Our stickers are printed on 4mil vinyl using water and UV resistant inks 150; meaning no fading in the sun or bleeding in the rain. Measures 3 x 5 oval. Printed on durable 4mil vinyl. |
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Irish Step Dancer Dance Kids Hoodie by CafePress $29 Irish Step Dancer Hoodie Dance Kids Hoodie Stay warm while lookinrsquo; casual-cool in this kid version of an adult favorite - our ash grey Hanes Pullover Hooded Sweatshirt. Deep front pocket and hood for extra protection against getting slammed by bad weather. Made of cotton/polyester blend that |
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Shamrock Irish Dancer Irish Women's Cap Sleeve T-Shirt by CafePress $23 Sweet Simple -- Irish Dancer Wear it on Saint Patrick's Day... or while dancing a ceili Irish Women's Cap Sleeve T-Shirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt Get into sporty, stylin' casual comfort with our Women's Cap Sleeve Raglan. Looks great on the go or just hangin' out. Made of 100% combed ring-spun cotton that gets even softer with each washing.6.1 oz 100% combed ring-spun cotton 1x1 rib. |
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Irish Dancer Shamrock Irish Hooded Sweatshirt by CafePress $45 White or Ash Gray Irish Hooded Sweatshirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt The hoodie: the perfect utilitarian piece of clothing. Leave your hat and scarf at home Stay warm and comfy in your Pullover Hooded Sweatshirt. This hoodie is constructed with a cotton/polyester blend - both durable and comfortable.Heavyweight 90 |
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Irish Dancer Hobbies Jr. Spaghetti Tank by CafePress $22.5 Cute design for the Irish Dancer Hobbies Jr. Spaghetti Tank Our spaghetti tank from American Apparel will keep you in style year round. Made of soft 100% superfine combed cotton baby rib, this tank provides the perfect silhouette.5.8 oz. 100% Ultra-fine combed ring spun 1x1 baby rib cotton. Size up |
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Grunge Toestand irish Dancer Hip Journal by CafePress $11 Grunged-up Irish Dancer performing en pointe -- take it along to feisanna Hip Journal Scribble important stuff - lyrics, recipes, addresses, and more. Our Wire-O bound, 160 page journal has your choice of papers and measures 5 x 8, a handy on-the-go size to fit in your backpack. Get creative and let the muse flow. Back cove |
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Irish Dancer Graffiti Hobbies Kids Hoodie by CafePress $26 A little graffiti for your little Irish dancer Hobbies Kids Hoodie Stay warm while lookinrsquo; casual-cool in this kid version of an adult favorite - our ash grey Hanes Pullover Hooded Sweatshirt. Deep front pocket and hood for extra protection against getting slammed by bad weather. Made of cotton/polyester blend that |
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Irish Dancer Shamrock Irish Oval Sticker by CafePress $5 Our stickers are printed on 4mil vinyl using water and UV resistant inks 150; meaning no fading in the sun or bleeding in the rain. Measures 3quot; x 5quot; oval Printed on durable 4mil vinyl Irish Oval Sticker Our stickers are printed on 4mil vinyl using water and UV resistant inks 150; meaning no fading in the sun or bleeding in the rain. Measures 3 x 5 oval. Printed on durable 4mil vinyl. |
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Classic Irish Dancer Irish Bumper Sticker by CafePress $5 Tell the world how you feel Our bumper stickers are perfect for expressing yourself while cruising down the highway or just for posting on the wall. Measures 10quot; x 3quot;Printed on 4mil vinyl using water and UV resistant inks - Irish Bumper Sticker Tell the world how you feel Our bumper stickers are perfect for expressing yourself while cruising down the highway or just for posting on the wall. Measures 10 x 3. Printed on 4mil vinyl using water and UV resistant inks - |
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Irish Dancer in Training Irish Bib by CafePress $12 Today, banana puree... tomorrow, clicks amp; kicks. Irish Bib Eeewww Baby, Baby Itrsquo;s okay to make a mess in our easy-wash 100% cotton bib. It provides great upper body coverage to protect babyrsquo;s clothes. The sturdy closure makes this one-size bib fit newborns to 36 months. 100% jersey cotto |
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Irish Dancer Shamrock Irish Tote Bag by CafePress $18 Our 100% cotton canvas tote bags have plenty of room to carry everything you need when you are on the go. They include a bottom gusset and extra long handles for easy carrying. 10 oz heavyweight natural canvas fabricFull side and bot Irish Tote Bag Our 100% cotton canvas tote bags have plenty of room to carry everything you need when you are on the go. They include a bottom gusset and extra long handles for easy carrying. 10 oz heavyweight natural canvas fabric. Full side and bot |
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Irish Dancer Shamrock Irish Messenger Bag by CafePress $35 From school, to carrying your laptop, to a hip alternative diaper bag, our versatile, spacious messenger bag is practically all you need to get you through every stage of your life -- and look hip doing it. One front adjustable clasp closure. |
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Dad Finance Dancer Mousepad by CafePress $13 Irish Dancer Dancer Mousepad Keep your mouse rolling in style on our durable cloth top mousepad. A great gift for geeks, gamers, or anyone with a computer. Rubber backing prevents the mousepad from sliding. Machine washable. |
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Adult Irish Dancer Dancer Women's T-Shirt by CafePress $22 Our 100% cotton Women's tee is preshrunk, durable and guaranteed. 5.6 oz. 100% cottonStandard fit Dancer Women's T-Shirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt Our 100% cotton Women's tee is preshrunk, durable and guaranteed. 5.6 oz. 100% cotton. Standard fit. |
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Irish EXOTIC DANCER Holiday Jr. Spaghetti Tank by CafePress $22.5 Major League Irish EXOTIC DANCER t-shirts, stickers and gifts with a lucky four leaf clover. Holiday Jr. Spaghetti Tank Our spaghetti tank from American Apparel will keep you in style year round. Made of soft 100% superfine combed cotton baby rib, this tank provides the perfect silhouette.5.8 oz. 100% Ultra-fine combed ring spun 1x1 baby rib cotton. Size up |
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Irish Dancer ID Euro Hobbies Oval Sticker by CafePress $5 Irish Dancer ID Euro Oval Sticker Hobbies Oval Sticker Our stickers are printed on 4mil vinyl using water and UV resistant inks 150; meaning no fading in the sun or bleeding in the rain. Measures 3 x 5 oval. Printed on durable 4mil vinyl. |
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Irish Step Dancer Kick Butt Funny Gym Bag by CafePress $17 Gym Bag for that Irish Step Dancer Funny Gym Bag Headed to the club for a work out? No sweat. Our Nylon Gym Bag from American Apparel is the perfect way to transport those damp gym clothes back home. Made with a water-resistant Nylon Pack Cloth construction, it's made for the rigorous demands of an athl |
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Certified Irish Dancer Dance Hoodie dark by CafePress $45 Celebrate the beauty of traditional Irish Dancing with our unique grunge Irish Dance stamp design for lovers of the dancing of Ireland...especially on St. Patrick's Day Dance Hoodie dark Stay warm on the inside. Look oh-so-cool on the outside. Don this comfortable fleece sweatshirt for that dress-down BBQ -- or your next dress-to-impress trip to the mall.10 oz. fleece blend 90% cotton/10% polyester. Fleece-lined hoo |
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Certified Irish Dancer Dance Messenger Bag by CafePress $35 Celebrate the beauty of traditional Irish Dancing with our unique grunge Irish Dance stamp design for lovers of the dancing of Ireland...especially on St. Patrick's Day Dance Messenger Bag From school, to carrying your laptop, to a hip alternative diaper bag, our versatile, spacious messenger bag is practically all you need to get you through every stage of your life -- and look hip doing it. One front adjustable clasp closure. |
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irish jig gifts and t-shirts Funny Women's Tracksuit by CafePress $43 love irish dancing? kmow how to do a jig? show them you're a dancer with erin isle talents with this design on gifts and t-shirts Funny Women's Tracksuit Our Womenrsquo;s Raglan Tracksuit is sporty, stylish and ultra-soft, so it feels great against the skin. The zip up hoodie is side-seamed for a shapely fit. The color coordinated sweatpants are destined to be your favorite pair, with a straight leg fit, |
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Irish Forest Air Freshener - Shamrock $5.99 Take home the fresh, clean scent of Ireland. These fresheners are ideal for home and car. From Ireland. Poly resin. 3 3/4 Dancer |
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Irish Dancer Hobbies Cap by CafePress $17 Our adjustable, 100% brushed cotton Cap is unstructured and an ideal way to beat the heat. Wear it anytime you want to keep the sun off or cover up a bad hair day. It features a sturdy low profile brim, sweatband, and adjustable closure, as well as Pre Hobbies Cap . Our adjustable, 100% brushed cotton Cap is unstructured and an ideal way to beat the heat. Wear it anytime you want to keep the sun off or cover up a bad hair day. It features a sturdy low profile brim, sweatband, and adjustable closure, as well as Pre |
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Dancer in Training Irish Toddler T-Shirt by CafePress $12 Let everyone at the feis know who to look out for Irish Toddler T-Shirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt Our 100% cotton toddler tee will look great on your little ones.5.5 oz. 100% cotton. Standard fit. |
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I Irish Dance Dancer Tote Bag by CafePress $18 Our 100% cotton canvas tote bags have plenty of room to carry everything you need when you are on the go. They include a bottom gusset and extra long handles for easy carrying. 10 oz heavyweight natural canvas fabricFull side and bot Dancer Tote Bag Our 100% cotton canvas tote bags have plenty of room to carry everything you need when you are on the go. They include a bottom gusset and extra long handles for easy carrying. 10 oz heavyweight natural canvas fabric. Full side and bot |
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Irish Dancer Hobbies Women's Cap Sleeve T-Shirt by CafePress $23 Cute design for the Irish Dancer Hobbies Women's Cap Sleeve T-Shirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt Get into sporty, stylin' casual comfort with our Women's Cap Sleeve Raglan. Looks great on the go or just hangin' out. Made of 100% combed ring-spun cotton that gets even softer with each washing.6.1 oz 100% combed ring-spun cotton 1x1 rib. |
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Irish Dancer Graffiti Pink Hobbies Jr. Jersey T-Shirt by CafePress $22.25 Irish Dancer in a graffiti style that is sure to make people take notice Hobbies Jr. Jersey T-Shirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt Turn heads in this hot, hip, curve-hugging tee from American Apparel. Made of ultra-fine, ring-spun cotton, it gets softer with each washing. Lightweight for summer comfort or winter layering, it39;s a casual, effortless way to ensure you39;re stylin |
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Shamrock Irish Dancer Irish Women's V-Neck T-Shirt by CafePress $22 A looser fitting, more classic v-neck shirt. Irish Women's V-Neck T-Shirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt Our 100% cotton, women's v-neck tee is preshrunk, durable and guaranteed. 5.6 oz. 100% cotton. Standard fit. |
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Irish Dancer Shamrock Irish Women's T-Shirt by CafePress $22 Our 100% cotton Women's tee is preshrunk, durable and guaranteed. 5.6 oz. 100% cottonStandard fit Irish Women's T-Shirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt Our 100% cotton Women's tee is preshrunk, durable and guaranteed. 5.6 oz. 100% cotton. Standard fit. |
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Grunge Irish Dancer Dance Tote Bag by CafePress $21 Scratched torn effect on this classic hard shoe photograph. Back side reads Irish Dance is Life. The rest is details Great for toting shoes and more to dance class. Dance Tote Bag Our 100% cotton canvas tote bags have plenty of room to carry everything you need when you are on the go. They include a bottom gusset and extra long handles for easy carrying. 10 oz heavyweight natural canvas fabric. Full side and bot |
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Dancer in Training Irish Maternity T-Shirt by CafePress $28.5 Let everyone know your little kicker is a future star Irish Maternity T-Shirt Tee, TShirt, Shirt Our 100% cotton mid-weight jersey maternity tee is super soft and comfortable. A scoop neck with side seamed construction provides a perfect shape, for you and your little one.5.5 oz. 100% luxuriously soft combed ring spun cotton . Scoop |
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